
1) switch to detail list view
2) untick 'Use Windows colors' (you might ask why I would want to do this. well, if I want to use NC-Mode I must untick this to get reasonable results)
3) untick 'Border only' at Focused item active list
4) set background color of Focused item active list to white

this is pretty much related to that topic, but I guess that one got partially fixed and is a bit hard to follow for new guests:
http://forum.freecommander.com/viewtopic.php?f=7&t=8338